By Jug Varner

Yeah, I know… you can't wait until your active duty commitment is over and you can leave military life… start a new career… make lots more money… quit standing in line… be your own boss, etc., etc., etc.

And you won't even consider the possibility of a military career. Been there, heard that, many times.

Well, I have news for you: One of these days you are going to reflect on the time you spent in the military, and discover a lot of feelings you didn't know you had. You don't realize it now, but military service changed you in ways you now take for granted.

You learned self-discipline, work ethic, punctuality, how to follow orders, how to give orders, team work, integrity, patriotism, camaraderie, a work specialty, and many other things that make you a better person and useful citizen of this nation…whether you realize it or not. Most of you didn't learn these things at home or in school during your teenage years - not in today's society…that is for sure!

As time goes by you may tell yourself, “Maybe I was wrong. It wasn't as bad as I thought. I wonder where old Joe is now. He stayed in. Probably well advanced in rank and making more than I am. I wish now I'd have done that. I would be drawing a good retirement check now that would sure come in handy.”

That scenario is especially true for those who found the reality of civilian life to be less orderly, less meaningful, less financially rewarding, less honest, less enjoyable, more “bottom-line oriented,” and more standing in line than they had imagined it would be.

Yes…you are going to miss the life of the Air Force, Army, Coast Guard, Marines, or Navy…whether you know it or not. The nostalgia will grow stronger with time, and one day some of you will find yourselves looking for a reunion of your old outfit.

I end this week's musing by attaching something from jimathews_at_hotmail.com that eloquently relates to all this:

(Author unknown)

I like standing on the bridge wing at sunrise with salt spray in my face and clean ocean winds whipping in from the four quarters of the globe — the ship beneath me feeling like a living thing as her engines drive her through the sea.

I like the sounds of the Navy - the piercing trill of the boatswains pipe, the syncopated clangor of the ship's bell on the quarterdeck, the harsh squawk of the 1MC, and the strong language and laughter of sailors at work.

I like Navy vessels — nervous darting destroyers, plodding fleet auxiliaries, sleek submarines and steady solid carriers.

I like the proud names of Navy ships: Midway, Lexington, Saratoga, Coral Sea — memorials of great battles won.

I like the lean angular names of Navy 'tin-cans': Barney, Dahlgren, Mullinix, and McCloy — mementos of heroes who went before us.

I like the tempo of a Navy band blaring through the topside speakers as we pull away from the oiler after refueling at sea. I like liberty call and the spicy scent of a foreign port.

I even like all hands working parties as my ship fills herself with the multitude of supplies both mundane and exotic which she needs to cut her ties to the land and carry out her mission anywhere on the globe where there is water to float her.

I like sailors, men from all parts of the land, farms of the Midwest, small towns of New England, from the cities, the mountains and the prairies, from all walks of life. I trust and depend on them as they trust and depend on me — for professional competence, for comradeship, for courage. In a word, they are “shipmates.”

I like the surge of adventure in my heart, when the word is passed: “Now station the special sea and anchor detail - all hands to quarters for leaving port,” and I like the infectious thrill of sighting home again, with the waving hands of welcome from family and friends waiting pierside.

The work is hard and dangerous; the going rough at times; the parting from loved ones painful, but the companionship of robust Navy laughter, the 'all for one and one for all' philosophy of the sea is ever present.

I like the serenity of the sea after a day of hard ship's work, as flying fish flit across the wave tops and sunset gives way to night. I like the feel of the Navy in darkness — the masthead lights, the red and green navigation lights and stern light, the pulsating phosphorescence of radar repeaters — they cut through the dusk and join with the mirror of stars overhead. And I like drifting off to sleep lulled by the myriad noises large and small that tell me that my ship is alive and well, and that my shipmates on watch will keep me safe.

I like quiet midwatches with the aroma of strong coffee — the lifeblood of the Navy — permeating everywhere. And I like hectic watches when the exacting minuet of haze-gray shapes racing at flank speed keeps all hands on a razor edge of alertness.

I like the sudden electricity of “General quarters, general quarters, all hands man your battle stations,” followed by the hurried clamor of running feet on ladders and the resounding thump of watertight doors as the ship transforms herself in a few brief seconds from a peaceful workplace to a weapon of war — ready for anything!

And I like the sight of space-age equipment manned by youngsters clad in dungarees and sound-powered phones that their grandfathers would still recognize.

I like the traditions of the Navy and the men and women who made them. I like the proud names of Navy heroes: Halsey, Nimitz, Perry, Farragut, John Paul Jones.

A sailor can find much in the Navy: Comrades-in-arms, pride in self and country, mastery of the seaman's trade. An adolescent can find adulthood.

In years to come, when sailors are home from the sea, they will still remember with fondness and respect the ocean in all its moods — the impossible shimmering mirror calm and the storm-tossed green water surging over the bow.

And then there will come again a faint whiff of stack gas, a faint echo of engine and rudder orders, a vision of the bright bunting of signal flags snapping at the yardarm, a refrain of hearty laughter in the wardroom and chief's quarters and mess decks. Gone ashore for good they will grow wistful about their Navy days, when the seas belonged to them and a new port of call was ever over the horizon. Remembering this, they will stand taller and say, “I was a sailor once. I was part of the Navy, and the Navy will always be part of me.”